The Christian life has two basic shapes: cruciform and eucharistic. It is about giving and thanksgiving. It is about dying to self and abounding in gratitude. Like Christ, we are called to live cruciform lives – arms stretched wide in giving and receiving. Through Christ, we are released to live eucharistic lives – arms stretched wide in thanking and rejoicing.
Here’s an irony: almost all deeply thankful people, at least that I know, have less of everything – less health, wealth, beauty, opportunity: everything – than entitled people. That’s because their thankfulness is not so much a response as it is a choice. It’s a resolve. It’s a conviction. They choose thanks over complaint, over coveting, over self-pity. In the eyes of the thankful, all life is eucharistic – literally, a good gift, a good grace (though sometimes well-disguised). They choose, therefore, over and over, to give thanks in all things and for all things, sometimes in spite of many things.
They also choose the obvious outworking of thankfulness: generosity. Real gratitude always engenders rich generosity. Eucharistic living always flows into cruciform living, a life of giving yourself away. God lavishes His grace upon us, not that we would bottle it, but that we would channel it. He’s not looking for holding tanks. He’s looking for conduits. Grace abounds so that it might overflow.
Grateful hearts are a good gift – a eucharist – to regularly be reminded: be thankful, be generous. It’s an even better gift to daily live thus.